Saturday, February 23, 2013

Just Another Day in Paradise


22 Feb 2013


We were out the door first thing this morning in search of the part needed to fix Louise's car, but as luck would have it, the only car part’s store on this end of the island said they sold all they had yesterday to someone who came in and bought their inventory up.  It’s just a small plastic little thing the size of a pencil eraser and Kory said it’s used in all kinds of places on cars and they break often.  Ugh.  So we thought there was no hope in getting her car fixed before we leave.  As it is, she has to roll down the window to open the car door from the outside.  And it’s such an easy fix.

Kaleb’s “service” today consisted of hanging out the laundry and bringing it back in.  He also tore up the box for the weed wacker Louise bought for Mark, their caretaker.  He had it easy.


Mark is a Haitian who has been here since 2001.  He works every day for Greg, taking care of his properties – washing windows and doing all the yardwork and cleanup – which can be significant after a storm.  Greg owns three pieces of property all right next to each other so everyday Louise or her daughter Sheila gets Mark, feeds him breakfast and lunch and takes him home at the end of the day.  He also acts as a sort of security guard, since he hangs around all day working.

Mark’s wife and 2 children live in Haiti in now a rather upper middle class lifestyle (for that country) because he has a steady job and sends all his money home.  He lives here with 5 other guys in a one bedroom tiny place, just so he can support his family, which is common.  His children go to a private school where they are learning English and computer skills and their future looks pretty bright, compared to others in Haiti.  Mark only gets to see them two times a year for three weeks at a time – at Christmas and during the summer.  He calls home every Friday and Monday, using Louise's web phone, so he keeps in touch that way.  He is a humble servants and says a lot of “Yes, Ma’ams.”  He is one of the few Haitians who have been able to get his “papers” to stay here because Greg, his employer, is the office manager for a huge law firm downtown and he arranged everything for him.  There is no hope for him to go back to Haiti, since there is no work, and there are laws forbidding him from bringing his wife and children to Bahamas, so it’s a sad life, for sure.  He’s just dedicated it to giving his children a better future.


So, Louise bought Mark a weed wacker a year ago.  Apparently Mark can’t read because he dumped the little bottle of oil in the gas tank and didn’t understand why it didn’t start.  It needs to be mixed with gasoline.  Kory drained out the oil and got the weed wacker working and showed Mark how to use it and refill it with the proper mixture of gas and oil.  He was like a kid with a new toy.

Louise did NOT want the cardboard box out by the garbage, since that’s putting spot lights on her house that she now has something cool someone can steal.  I guess stealing is the number one hobby around here, so Kaleb tore up the cardboard box into pieces and put them in a garbage bag so they aren’t noticeable to anyone.  Even the shed, where the weed wacker is kept, has two padlocks on it and a reinforced door.  Louise's house has two gates, both locked, all the doors have steel plates near the handles so crowbars can’t pry them open and all the windows have bars on them that won’t open.  Even still, things get stolen.  Louise has just had to let everything go, even the most meaningful things that have been taken, as she realizes she can’t take it to heaven with her anyway. 

Being a missionary would be rich material for book writing.  Oh, how I’d love to sit and do that.  Louise has story after story of her supporters and “friends” of her supporters coming down here to visit who want to “be a blessing, not a burden” (kinda like us – ha!), but they really just want to go to the beach and eat her food and let her chauffer them around the island.  Even teenage work groups who have come down to paint the church, show up and say it’s too hot to work, too hot to pass out tracts, can’t we just go to the beach?  So being in the Bahamas has its drawbacks as everyone wants to come visit. She has had a lifetime of being taken advantage of.  She finally put her foot down and said no more visitors, but she made an exception for us, so we’ve been the first visitors in a good long while.


One group of friends of friends of hers showed up on a cruise ship and called her to come get them.  She has this little 5 seater car and they were just indignant that she didn’t have a van so they could all travel together as she showed them around the island.  They told her every missionary they knew had a van and how come she didn’t have one?  She couldn’t’ believe she was getting a tongue lashing over the vehicle she showed up in, but I guess it ruined their big plans to have her give them a private tour – people she didn’t even know!  She also told of one of her supporters coming down to stay with her and when she saw how nice of a house she lived in she said, “Well, this is nicer than the house I live in,” and then she went home and dropped her support to Louise because she felt she was living a better life.  Crazy thinking.  Louise doesn’t even own the house.

Louise is considered the mother to everyone in her church and they all know if they need something or have a problem, to go to her.  Even just driving around town with her, it’s hard to go into a store that someone doesn’t grab her and give her a hug and a big smile.  And driving down the road, someone she hadn’t seen for 20 years started honking at her and yelling, “Mrs. Godfrey!” and talking to her through the open windows.  All the Haitians love her, but she’s not so loved by the locals because of what she does “for the least of these.”  She has no fear though as she boldly supports the plight of the illegals.  Whatta woman.

We had a lull in work this afternoon and Louise had a few errands to run so she dropped us off at a nearby beach for about half an hour so we could go beachcombing.  The water was so warm!  What a treat.  We got lots of shells.

We took Mark home this afternoon and we passed a little auto parts store in his neighborhood.  I told her we should stop in and see if they had that plastic part needed for her car.  She said it was a very dangerous neighborhood and she didn’t think it wise for us to get out of the car.  I said nonsense, let’s check.  They had the part, used, but they had it.  The problem was, neither of us had grabbed our purses so we had no cash.  Louise went out to the car and got an umbrella to use as a trade, but the woman said it was only $2 and we could come back later and pay for it, which we did.  Kory was able to put the car back together and now, at least, her door works properly.  Louise shouted out a big, “Thank you, Jesus!” to which Kory responded, “My name is Kory.”  Ha.  Mission accomplished.

Tonight we went out for Chinese food down by the harbor where all the huge cruise ships come in.  The food was great.  Afterwards we went over to Paradise Island where the massive Atlantis complex is built, and looked around.  After seeing the real Nassau for the past few days, it was more than a culture shock to go over there were everything was done up like a five star resort.  Nothing but opulence, massive yachts, people with all kinds of money, and the stores to prove it.  It didn’t feel right, after seeing how everyone really lives here, but very few people venture off that little spit of land because the whole island caters to the rich tourists from around the world and it’s their comfort zone.  The cheapest room at Atlantis is $400 a night and the big suite for the Oprah Winfrey’s of the world go for $25,000 a night.  There is a casino in the lobby so we walked through that, and the world’s largest aquarium wrapped around one side of the dining hall that we walked along.  The things inside that place are mind boggling – it’s better than Vegas, baby.  There were three massive Chihuly glass sculptures, too.  It was something else. 

I’ve bought a few souvenir Starbucks mugs for a friend along our journey and they cost $9.95.  I thought I’d buy one for me that said “Bahamas” on it but there was no price showing.  When they rang me out I gasped at the $16.95 price tag.  I told the woman those mugs are $9.95 at all the other Starbucks and she just said, “Welcome to Paradise,” with a grin on her face.  Ha ha.

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